Hi Jenn!

2008 is a 1 Year. December is a 4 month this year. The 21st is a 7 day.

Her birthforce number is 8
His birthforce number is 1

This is a 4 Personal Year for her. December will be a 7 Personal Month. The 21st will be a 1 Personal Day.
For him this is 1 Personal Year. December will be a 4 Personal Month, and the 21st will be a 7 Personal Day.

4 is a good number for work, setting a foundation, and building. It is also the number of tradition and family. It can also indicate the potential for lots of expenses and stress from demands made by or needs expected to be cared for by family (parents, siblings, children, spouse).

1 is a good number for beginnings, new ventures, originality, taking the lead, and getting things done. It can also mean impatience, bossiness, and independence.

7 is a number I generally think of as solitary. It's the number of research, examination, precision, spirituality, inner knowing, and thought.

You probably also noticed that the general year numbers reflect each of their personal numbers this year on that date.

If I were to think about conditions that these numbers would support, I'd say a small (7), intimate (4, 7) wedding that reflects and honors the family traditions (4) of each while also expressing their own personal spirituality (7) and also originality (1) would flow with the energy of the day. Thoughtfully (7) setting the foundation (4) for something new (1).

Astrologically, Virgo & Capricorn (their sun signs) have some major things happening this year. Saturn, the planet of structure, work, planning, and traditions (sounds a bit like 4, huh?) is in Virgo, while Jupiter, the planet of expansion, travel, new experiences, cross cultural exchange, and luck is in Capricorn. If that hasn't already been pointed out to them or you, there is plenty of reading to be done online about it.